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For many people, the end of the year is supposed to feel joyful, reflective, and celebratory. Instead, it can feel heavy, draining, or isolating. While lights go up and calendars fill, emotional energy often runs low. If the pressure to feel happy feels overwhelming, or if exhaustion replaces excitement, you are not alone. Seasonal depression and emotional burnout commonly intensify at year’s end, especially for those already managing stress, anxiety, grief, or depression. T

The holidays are often associated with closeness, including shared meals, traditions, physical presence, and togetherness. For couples in long-distance relationships, this season can amplify feelings of longing, loneliness, and emotional strain. While distance is challenging year-round, it often feels heavier during the holidays when reminders of what’s missing are everywhere. Long-distance relationships can still be deeply fulfilling, but maintaining emotional connection dur

Long-distance relationships can deepen emotional closeness, but they can also bring up complicated feelings when physical touch, sexual intimacy, or time together becomes limited. It’s common for partners to have different intimacy needs, and when distance is involved, those differences can feel bigger and more painful. One partner may crave more contact, more reassurance, or more sexually intimate connection, while the other may feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how

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